MATURE
SOULS
By the end of the Young Soul phase, an uneasiness
arises that something is amiss. All the wealth, power and acclaim aren't quite
enough; profits and winning no longer have transcendental
value.
Thus
begins the search of the Mature Soul period. The questions "Who am I? Why am I
here?" are asked with frequency in these lives. These are trying, intense times;
emotions open up, boundaries between people break down. Seeing another person's
point of view becomes possible as people become deeply immersed in relationship
issues. Suddenly it's clear everybody has feelings, and these feelings are
usually either interesting or unavoidable. One of the reasons Young Souls are
able to direct so much energy towards success is that their inner lives aren't
calling for attention. This allows their energy to flow easily after externals.
Not so in the Mature period. It is a stirred-up, introspective time. There is
more emotional centering here, more intensity, more schizophrenia, more pain,
more suicide, more love, more sensuality, and probably more drugs to intensify
it all than in any other period. Boy George, Sean Penn, Richard Burton and
Marlon Brando have (or had) lives that illustrate this tendency toward
immoderation, Sally Field, while pregnant with her third child, was quoted as
saying, "It's scary to think that there will be another human being in the world
that I will love that much." Her lament embodies the typical Mature Soul
intensification of feeling.
Creativity
flows. Philosophy and art come into prominence. Illusion and distortion of
reality are inevitable as a person opens up because there is not a clear path
nor an easy way to sort through all the feelings. Nothing is so solid as in the
Baby and Young phases. Being flexible is not easy. Until the last couple of
decades our culture provided few guideposts for this vexing set of lives. The
hippies with all their "flow" and "beingness" facilitated everyone's
understanding of the Mature Soul phase and helped disassemble some of this
society's blinder adulation of Young Soul consciousness.
Because
they are often misunderstood and perceived as disturbed, when actually just
perceiving more than the Baby or Young Soul, Mature Souls often gravitate
towards a community of other Mature Souls where they can be understood. Berkeley
and Cambridge are two notoriously Mature Soul cities in the United States, as is
Amsterdam in Holland. Both the creative and the gay men's communities in Los
Angeles, San Francisco and New York are a mixture, but tend to be Mature in
flavor. Mature Souls enjoy the company of other Mature Souls for their emotional
potency as well as for the "being on the same path" kind of feeling. They
appreciate Old Souls for their information and perhaps an occasional rest, while
Young Souls are enjoyed for their reminders of how to push forward in the
world.
This,
like the Young Soul phase, is a time when many people rise into prominence,
though less now through ambition and power, and more from vim, verve and dash.
Notice that the individual's character tends to be full, usually quite
interesting and creative in the Mature period. Painter Vincent Van Gogh suffered
continually from the intensity of his feelings, while Paul Gauguin hoped to find
solace from them in the peaceful South Seas. Jean Genet, Truman Capote and J.D.
Salinger each gave an intense, Mature Soul flavor to their writing. And, don't
forget Barbara Walters, the TV interviewer who is always interested in helping
people reveal their most intimate feelings, and Morton Downey, Jr. who rather
cynically aggravates people's feelings.
Notice
the pep, excitement, enthusiasm and intensity with which these stars live:
Michael Jackson, Bruce Springsteen, Paul McCartney, Frank Zappa, Randy Newman,
Holly Near, Janis Joplin, Cyndi Lauper, Madonna and Barbra Streisand. Like
Marilyn Monroe, Judy Garland, Michael Douglas, Elizabeth Taylor, Vanessa
Redgrave, Molly Ringwald, Jack Nicholson, Dennis Hopper, Charlie Sheen, Warren
Beatty, Lily Tomlin, Jane Fonda, Donald Sutherland and a host of others, most of
our actors are Mature. Crusaders Ralph Nader, Gloria Steinem, Oliver North,
Abbie Hoffman and Tom Hayden are all Mature and occasionally inflamed. Carlos
Castaneda, Lynn Andrews, Terry Cole-Whittaker, Brugh Joy, Shakti Gawain, Dan
Millman and Elizabeth Clair Prophet are Mature spiritual seekers, teachers and
authors. Mature Souls will seek higher education but often gravitate towards
smaller non-traditional schools. This period has its own priorities and inner
sense of direction. For example, Mature Souls will sometimes, much to the
bewilderment of their Young Soul relatives, purposefully turn away from a
well-paying, high status position to choose something more in line with their
developing priorities, whether more casual, more risky and creative, or more
save-the-world.
This
whole period is marked by exploration, much of it inner, but plenty of it outer.
Madonna's mother probably didn't picture her innocently named daughter wearing a
crucifix and odd underwear while prancing on stage one day.
A
person may fall in love with opera, jazz, Pavarotti, Mozart, chamber m usic,
tango, polka or playing a Pan flute while he gathers mushrooms from the woods.
Non-traditional religions, meditation, and metaphysics start to look
interesting, while outer horizons broaden with unfastened lifestyles, sex of all
sorts, art of every type, gourmet and foreign cuisines. Out of the high
sensuality of this period there may come a passion for sushi or fine wines and
the ability to distinguish and appreciate exquisite nuances in
flavor.
In
fact, most of the first-rate, four-star chefs around the world are
Mature.
Countries
with Mature Soul attributes may tend to put more attention on social
relationships than on material goods or efficiency. Examples are Italy, Greece,
Egypt and Mexico. Italy has had about 50 postwar cabinet crises. In Mature
nations the question comes up, does a country really need a smoothly functioning
government, or is it more interesting to keep juggling? Sometimes "little"
things like a crumbling infrastructure won't receive attention until disaster is
clearly imminent.
England,
even with its stolid roots, is a little off balance due to its entry into the
Mature phase. With the advent of a socialism which aims for a more equal
distribution of wealth, the average Briton is suddenly more focused on internals
than on the never-ending struggle to maintain a power position in the world.
People are less interested in nose-to-the-grindstone hard work, but not just
because their basic survival is supported by the socialistic system. They have
changed on an inner level and now finally have a leader, John Major, who
reflects their Mature Soul consciousness.
Around
mid-1987, many Young Soul countries, like Israel and the U.S., started nosing
into a Mature consciousness. This happened because suddenly their populations
had more Mature Souls than Young, and the old balance started changing. Those
countries will still feel primarily Young Soul in ambiance and action for some
time to come, but you'll notice within them, though, that the desire to make
sure everyone is taken care of crops up to a greater and greater extent. Since
Mature consciousness realizes we are all in this together, importance may get
attached to the rights of animals, whether dolphins, farm animals, near-extinct
species, rabbits, monkeys or rats used for medical research or fur bearing
animals used for warm clothing. On a slightly different tack, Mature Souls are
also likely to be the ones patronizing pet cemeteries.
Poland
and Russia are countries brimming with Mature Souls where strong agreements
exist for assets to be divided fairly, for everyone to have equal shares of the
wealth. Marxist theory is very much Mature Soul in flavor, if not in actuality.
The ruling groups in both those countries have been heavy, hardy Young Soul
types who have managed through thick and thin, by hook and crook, to hang on to
the power. And then you have Mature Souls like Lech Walesa and Mikhail Gorbachev
who are aiming to wrest it from them.
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